When 2 become 1

My number has dwindled. My two boys have been narrowed down to only one. Or so I thought....

C never called me last Thursday after the texting about the "silent treatment." The next day it was eating at me so I texted and he called. It was short & sweet: things feel like they are getting too serious and he doesn't want a relationship. Um, ok. I was a little surprised because I thought he would be reaming me about my partying or whatever. I told him that he made that pretty clear when we started hanging out. We hung up - civilly of course. Then I deleted his number - no need to have drunken texts go out (we all know how that happens). It was a little bittersweet - I do like him A LOT but we've never even come close to having the relationship talk! Its like a slap in the face - how can you break up with someone when you're NOT EVEN A BOYFRIEND. I'm still not sure where all of this came from. But its easier to cut my losses now before things (re: I) got carried away. Right? Sure....

The weekend progressed normally enough - although the rain on the 4th definitely dampened the holiday spirit. The best night was Friday when I went with L & B to a fest (where we had free beer & food all night) then L & I met up with her friend Potts at the 'ville bars. We were hammered drunk to say the least. Potts just got back from Egypt and we convinced a townie that she was actually Egyptian. That she didn't know English. And he bought us shots - pineapple upside-down. My first! And boy, it was delish! Anywho, when he went to the bathroom we took that as our cue to exit, but not before Potts wrote a note in "hieroglyphics" thanking him for the drink. I could have peed myself it was so funny.

This week has been so blah. I did do a couple of things (finally joined a gym & went to a Sox game) but I have to admit that I have been feeling lonely. Its been the first week that I have not had multiple plans for dinners/drinks. And of course no contact from my boys. Just when I was really down, wallowing in self pity I received an unexpected text from C. He asked if I wanted to meet him for a late dinner/drink. I was SHOCKED. I declined since I was knee deep in a book, curled up on the couch in my jammies. My guess is this: he misses me. I know he does. We haven't seen each other in over 2weeks and its not like we've ever fought before. I just keep thinking, why would he put the kibosh on something that is going so well? I mean we get along and have fun, why put rules on it? I assume boys just think all girls want is to be in a relationship and get serious. Their assumption is totally wrong. I will wait to see if he makes contact again. I'm not opposed to hanging out with him. I miss him too. And I can't believe he doesn't miss me, I just keep thinking back to my birthday...

No less than 20 min later I got a call from #2. Right, well I don't think I've been completely up front about him on the blog. I'm not sure where I left off with him in but I think I said we ended things. Well, we did. That day. Sorta. However that following Saturday we texted back and forth. Then on Sunday after the Pride Parade we met up at his apartment and hung out. Then on last Tuesday we got dinner (and porn*). He was busy over the weekend with friends & family for the holiday. Then Monday is Monday, and on Tuesday/Wednesday he has sports so we hadn't spoken since last week. ANYWHO. He called. We chatted. We're going to try to meet up this weekend sometime. He did mention he was surprised that I never call him and he has to call me all of the time. I was pleasantly surprised about that - he actually wants me to call him . Done. I can do that. The way he is acting makes me think that he finally realized how much he likes me. Its a warm fuzzy for sure.

This weekend looks like a busy one. Tonight is a going away party/breast cancer fundraiser with L & her college friends. The going away part of the party is actually for the girl who had the Trolley B-Day Party. Where C & I met. I have no clue if C will be there tonight. But I'll have to plan to look absolutely fabulous just in case. The weather looks deary and wet (of course!) but fingers crossed that my hair & make up make it tonight! Tomorrow possible beach day (fingers crossed no rain!) followed by KS b-day party with S - hopefully #2 will be able to meet up, this girl needs some lovin'. Sunday is Rose's 2nd bridal shower.

Happy Weekend Everyone!



*Yes, you read correctly. I said porn. #2 & I were walking back to his place after dinner when we notice we walked right past an "adult" store. We had to go in. Prior to that we decided that we would buy 1 video no more than $10. And we found one. When we were checking out, we got a FREE ONE on top of it. So now I am the proud owner for 2 porns for only $10.50! Granted they are terrible but still... totally awesome. And it lead to a very very fun evening